Courage

These past few months have challenged all of us to dig deep and find the strength and courage to conquer change and uncertainty. It’s inspired me to explore the idea of courage, and why we admire it in ourselves and others. It’s defined very simply as the ability to do something that frightens one. But I feel it’s so much more than that.

My wife Molly is a wonderfully encouraging and courageous woman. It’s evident when I listen to her on the phone with students addressing their fears and insecurities.  In fact, Molly is the go-to person for her children, friends, and students because they know she will listen patiently to their challenges. She focuses on uncovering the latent reservoir of courage and uniqueness that resides in everyone. We all need someone like Molly to remind us that it’s there. I’m blessed to be married to this amazing woman, who graces me with a high dose of courage and sparks my own internal spirit. 

In our daily lives, courage is rarely what we see on the big screen.  Envision Superman ripping open his shirt to expose a visual representation of courage under his neatly buttoned and pressed white shirt.  Courage is not Tony Stark, leveraging AI, robotics, and advanced technology to camouflage the frail human underneath the armored suit. In reality, courage is often subtle and unassuming. We mere mortals have two options: to wait for a superhero to rescue us, or to tap into the internal source of courage within us.

As children, we come preloaded with courage. Without it, we’d never take that first step, try new experiences on the playground, or let go of the side of the swimming pool.  Along the way, adults encourage, mentor, and teach us to find the well of courage that lies within. However, without repeated and ongoing use, courage—like a muscle—will atrophy and become weaker.  We witness this shrinking of courage in both the young and old around us, and it can painful to watch the bright flame retract to a mere flicker.  In contrast, I can think of few things more inspiring and energizing than watching a loved one or friend courageously face fear and move through an obstacle.

So, I ask you, what’s holding you back from courageously identifying and then pursuing your purpose… from living your life intentionally? Let me know how I can share a dose of my own courage and help ignite the flame in you.